Room 01 / One calm hour

Start with tonight

Name two stewards, protect the front doors, and choose one place to return to.

TonightAbout 20 minutesThe family knows who can recover the digital home.

Family life already has a system. It may be hidden across phones, inboxes, school portals, albums, and one person’s memory. Tonight we make only the front door visible.

Do this

The minimum

5 steps

Name two adult stewardsBoth can recover the family’s primary email, password manager, and phones.TonightChoose a private family code phraseUse it to verify urgent calls or messages that may be AI impersonations.TonightTurn on MFA for the two primary email accountsPrefer a passkey, security key, or authenticator app over SMS.TonightChoose the family calendarSchool, travel, health, and family plans land here.This weekendPut the next family review on that calendarThirty minutes, three months from now.This month

Three speeds

Tonight

Protect identity and agree how to verify one another.

This weekend

Draw the rooms and move the most important things.

This month

Practise recovery, backups, and the family handover.