Give everyone their own identity
One person, one account; shared plans beneath it; every device named and recoverable.
This weekendAbout 30 minutesA lost phone does not become a lost identity.
Shared life should not require shared identities. Each person signs in as themselves; the family plan shares services underneath.
6 steps
A phone disappears
The device is gone and may still be unlocked.
Use Find My or the platform equivalent, mark it lost, contact the carrier, revoke important sessions, then restore from a known backup.
Device rules worth agreeing
Updates
Automatic security updates stay on. Replace devices that can no longer receive them.
Screens
Bedtime and shared-space rules apply to adults too; parental controls are visible, not secret.
Selling or gifting
Confirm photos and files are backed up, sign out, remove the device from the family account, then erase it.